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What should I do after a mentoring session?

The session is over but the mentee's memory of it is not. A short, well-aimed note after the call is the cheapest thing you will ever do for someone's career.

Read time
3 minutes
Module
Mentoring well, long term
Session length
30 minutes
The short answer

What good looks like.

  • Send a three-line summary through the platform: the action you agreed, one resource, one sentence of encouragement.

  • Log anything the platform asks for. Attendance and feedback are what let partners see the programme is working, which is what keeps sessions free.

  • Then let it go. You are not responsible for whether they act on it, and chasing puts pressure on a relationship that was never meant to carry it.

In practice

A sequence you can follow.

  1. 01

    Write three lines

    Action, resource, encouragement.

  2. 02

    Send it the same day

    While the conversation is still fresh.

  3. 03

    Complete the feedback

    It takes a minute and it funds the next session.

  4. 04

    Close the loop

    No chasing, no obligation on either side.

Common mistakes

What to avoid.

  • A long email that repeats the whole session

  • Following up repeatedly when they do not reply

  • Skipping the feedback form

Extra tips

Small things that make the half hour better.

Do it within an hour

Five minutes while it is fresh beats a careful note next week.

Repeat the one action

Written down, it is far more likely to happen.

Send one link, not five

A single well-chosen resource actually gets opened.

Leave your feedback too

It improves the next match for the mentee as well as for you.

Take this guide with you.

Download a printable version of this guide: the short answer, the steps, the extra tips, the mistakes to avoid and the questions mentors ask, to read before your next session.

Questions

The things people ask first.

Should I offer a second session?

Only if you genuinely have the time. An honest single session is worth more than a vague open door.

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