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Mentor Academy · Mentoring well, long term

What are my safeguarding responsibilities as a mentor?

Some mentees are under 18 and reached us through a school or a programme. The rules below are not optional and they exist to protect the mentee and you.

Read time
4 minutes
Module
Mentoring well, long term
Session length
30 minutes
The short answer

What good looks like.

  • All contact stays on the platform. No private messaging, no personal phone numbers, no meeting in person, no exceptions for under-18 mentees.

  • If a mentee discloses harm, risk or abuse, do not investigate and do not promise confidentiality. Listen, keep them safe in the moment, end the session calmly, and report it the same day.

  • Report anything that concerns you even if you are not sure. Judging whether it matters is our team's job, not yours.

In practice

A sequence you can follow.

  1. 01

    Keep it on the platform

    Every message, file and call.

  2. 02

    Do not promise secrecy

    Say you may need to pass something on.

  3. 03

    Write it down

    What was said, in their words, with the date.

  4. 04

    Report the same day

    Through the safeguarding route on our safeguarding page.

Common mistakes

What to avoid.

  • Handling a disclosure privately to avoid making a fuss

  • Asking probing questions to establish the facts

  • Waiting to see if it happens again

Extra tips

Small things that make the half hour better.

Report the same day

You do not need certainty; you need to pass on the concern.

Write down what was said

Their words, the time, the date, not your interpretation.

Do not investigate

Asking more questions can make a situation harder to handle later.

Know the address before you need it

Keep support@mentorhero.com where you can find it in a hurry.

Take this guide with you.

Download a printable version of this guide: the short answer, the steps, the extra tips, the mistakes to avoid and the questions mentors ask, to read before your next session.

Questions

The things people ask first.

Will I be told what happens next?

You will be told your report was received. Details stay confidential to the mentee.

Do I need a background check?

Requirements depend on the programme; where checks are needed we arrange them before matching.

Next: Confidentiality and data.

What is said in the session stays in the session, with two exceptions.